Growing up my names were strongly identifying. If someone learned of my first or last name, there was a fair chance they knew of me. Almost no one else around was named Ezra. In college, there was a guy whose last name was “Esra” that caused a bit of confusion. But, all I had to say is “I am not Billy. My first name is Ezra.” And a woman in HR at my first job had a nephew named Ezra. Anyone with a last name of Freelove was related to me.
Of late not so much…
- A place where I do business confused the two Ezra clients. The conversation made no sense to me. Eventually, it came out the guy I was talking to meant the other one.
- There is a young boy named Ezra who is at the age where his parents call his name as he goes running away from them. A couple times over the past few month I have heard my name called only to realize it is the same woman who is his mother.
- A friend’s new nephew is named Ezra.
- A friend of my girlfriend’s son is named Ezra.
There are a few of us in town according to Facebook. I am getting less and less unique. My identity is getting more hidden in the crowd.
That is a good thing.
From Becoming Ununique published October 16, 2016 at 02:14PM.